He's Just Not That Into You

He's Just Not That Into You(2009)

"Are you the exception... or are you the rule?"

6.6/10
3,920 votes
129 minFebruary 6, 2009

Overview

Have you ever sat by the phone wondering why he said he would call, but didn't, or you can't figure out why she doesn't want to sleep with you anymore, or why your relationship just isn't going to the next level... they're just not that into you. Gigi just wants a man who says he'll call—and does—while Alex advises her to stop waiting by the phone. Beth wants a proposal after years of a committed relationship with her boyfriend, Neil, who sees nothing wrong with the status quo. Janine's not sure if she can trust her husband, Ben, who can't quite trust himself around Anna. Anna can't decide between the sexy married guy, or her straightforward, no-sparks standby, Conor, who can't get over the fact that he can't have her. And Mary, who's found an entire network of loving, supportive men, just needs to find one who's straight.

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Ginnifer Goodwin

Ginnifer Goodwin

Gigi Phillips

Justin Long

Justin Long

Alex

Jennifer Aniston

Jennifer Aniston

Beth Murphy

Ben Affleck

Ben Affleck

Neil

Jennifer Connelly

Jennifer Connelly

Janine Gunders

Bradley Cooper

Bradley Cooper

Ben Gunders

Scarlett Johansson

Scarlett Johansson

Anna Marks

Drew Barrymore

Drew Barrymore

Mary Harris

Kevin Connolly

Kevin Connolly

Conor Barry

Cory Hardrict

Cory Hardrict

Tyrone

Busy Philipps

Busy Philipps

Kelli Ann

Leonardo Nam

Leonardo Nam

Joshua

Rod Keller

Rod Keller

Bruce

Wilson Cruz

Wilson Cruz

Nathan

Kris Kristofferson

Kris Kristofferson

Ken Murphy

Brooke Bloom

Brooke Bloom

Paige Murphy

Hedy Burress

Hedy Burress

Laura Murphy

Brandon Keener

Brandon Keener

Jarrad

Ali Afshar

Ali Afshar

Skip

Bill Brochtrup

Bill Brochtrup

Larry

Natasha Leggero

Natasha Leggero

Amber Gnech

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Angela Shelton

Angela

Frances Callier

Frances Callier

Frances

Sasha Alexander

Sasha Alexander

Catherine

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Rene Lopez

Gregory

Mike Beaver

Mike Beaver

Cousin Jay

Shane Edelman

Shane Edelman

George

Kai Lennox

Kai Lennox

Devon

Stephen Jared

Stephen Jared

Steven

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Jason Roth

Trent

Corey Pearson

Corey Pearson

Jude

John Ross Bowie

John Ross Bowie

Dan the Wiccan

Googy Gress

Googy Gress

Cousin Dominic

Peter O'Meara

Peter O'Meara

Bill

Morgan Lily

Morgan Lily

5 yr. old Girl

Trenton Rogers

Trenton Rogers

6 yr. old Boy

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Michelle Carmichael

Mother

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Jasmine Woods

Crying 20-Something

Sabrina Revelle

Sabrina Revelle

Consoling Friend

Zoë Jarman

Zoë Jarman

Sorority Girl

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Alia Rhiana Eckerman

Sorority Girl

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Julia Pennington

Sous Chef

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Renee Dalo

Sous Chef

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Chihiro Fujii

Tokyo Girl

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Sachiko Ishida

Tokyo Girl

Claudia DiMartino

Claudia DiMartino

Jogger

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Eve Curtis

Jogger

Carmen Gloria Pérez

Carmen Gloria Pérez

Army Recruit

Traycee King

Traycee King

Army Recruit

Délé Ogundiran

Délé Ogundiran

African Woman

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Eunice Nyarazdo

African Woman

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Anita Yombo

African Woman

Niki J. Crawford

Niki J. Crawford

Waitress #1

Joan Blair

Joan Blair

Emotionless Cashier

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Anna Bugarin

Yoga Teacher

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Chris Miller

Baltimore Blade Staffer

Marc Silverstein

Marc Silverstein

Bartender

Annie Ilonzeh

Annie Ilonzeh

Hot Girl

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Melanie Stephens

Waitress #2

Nicole Steinwedell

Nicole Steinwedell

'No Spark' Girl

Erik David Barber

Erik David Barber

Slick Guy in Bar

Jarrett Grode

Jarrett Grode

'Droopy Dog'

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Sally Nisbet

Wedding Guest

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Sydney Stutterheim

Tall Girl

Derek Waters

Derek Waters

Party Guest

Nana Kagga-Hill

Nana Kagga-Hill

Party Guest

Jocelin Donahue

Jocelin Donahue

Cute Girl

Luis Guzmán

Luis Guzmán

Javier (uncredited)

Brittani Noel

Brittani Noel

Consoling Friend #2 (uncredited)

Cristine Rose

Cristine Rose

Wealthy Divorcee (uncredited)

Greg Behrendt

Greg Behrendt

Priest (uncredited)

Jana Savage

Jana Savage

Yoga Student (uncredited)

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Karmyn Tyler

Yoga Student (uncredited)

Alex Spencer

Alex Spencer

Yoga Student (uncredited)

Natalina Maggio

Natalina Maggio

Bar Girl (uncredited)

Kim McVicar

Kim McVicar

Bad Dancer (uncredited)

Carly Steel

Carly Steel

Party Girl #2 (uncredited)

Melissa Goodwin Shepherd

Melissa Goodwin Shepherd

Party Goer (uncredited)

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Elizabeth Russo

Waitress (uncredited)

Gina Limbrick

Gina Limbrick

Restaurant Patron (uncredited)

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Sandra Valladares

Restaurant Patron (uncredited)

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